It gave them a question to ask you, making their life incredibly easy. Welcome to the, "I'm the same as every other woman on this dating site" club.The more bait you leave, the more likely men will message you without skipping to the next profile. If you want to stand out from the crowd, reveal your personality in a unique way.I commented in parentheses throughout the profiles below what I thought of them and why: I gave this profile a passing grade because while it’s not great, nothing about it makes it terrible.“I have been in the ——- area for a few years now and always looking to meet new people. I enjoy meeting new people and going to new places.I'm not a magician, people.) It's not news that many men on dating sites just want to find an easy way to hook up.So if you are looking for "the one," say so—just, you know, without being frightening.Being specific about my interests was a key reason I had such a good response to my profile.
With so many fish in the scummy pond that is Los Angeles, how did I make my profile stand out from every other cute blonde actress/writer out there? Heed my wisdom, and you too could be fielding offers from potential men of your dreams.(Disclaimer: I cannot guarantee these tips will prevent your first date from being fantastically awkward.You would think thi is a no-brainer, but I still see my clients choosing pictures that are not flattering.One of my clients said to me, “I don’t want my pictures to look too sexy, I don’t want him to just want to have sex with me, I want him to like me for who I am.” I then asked her, “don’t you want him to want to have sex with you? Maybe this message will be different than all the others. Perhaps this email will finally be the one that doesn't have you contemplating the potential rise in serial killers populating your neighborhood. If this sounds familiar, don't get too down on your luck. You have the most beautiful brown eyes I ever seen. " You log off, wondering if online dating was ever a good idea to begin with.This little sentence was my profile's golden ticket.